SEO? & blog post that go viral

I have so much to learn!  Today, I read a blog http://www.samanthamcgowan.com/2014/10/16/reasons-to-comment-on-blogs/#comment-893 that taught me about SEO. To quote from her: Search engine optimization (SEO) is how Google ranks websites on their page when someone types into their search bar. This is daunting & I'm a bit fearful what I've stepped into as I entered the world of blogging.
    I was having a conversation with SweetPea & she asked if I wanted to have my blog go viral.  Again,  I have so much to learn.  I asked,  why would I want it to go viral?  This dialog was after I had written my post about "readership" (I should be able to put a linky thing to that post,  but I don't feel like learning that today).  Yes,  I do want to help change the world.... but I don't know if I really want to go the way of Ebola & spread where I'm not wanted.
   I don't see myself as an aspiring writer.  I've never wanted to write a book.  I just have children that I want to pass my heart to.  I have thoughts that need processing.  I need accountablity.  I need consistency.  I need community.  I've joined the blogging world & have found that.  So,  like it or not,  I may someday go "viral" because I have touch a chord of our world that needs to be heard.  I am a blogger,  hear me roar!

Defining Identity

I've been thinking alot about this lately as I'm having to juggle so many roles in my life right now.  Many people have been surprised about my job because they didn't know that I was an RN.  Many people saw me as "just a stay at home mom".  And I was fine with that.  It was how I was choosing to be defined.

 When my husband was alive,  I liked being called MRS...  I liked being defined as his wife & the mother of his children.  And now,  when my kids introduce me  to their friends,  I like being defined as their mom.  But,  now as I'm having to navigate through this new normal,  I'm wondering about my own definition.

     Before I was married,  I supposed I defined myself by my job,  because it was what I did.  But I don't think I ever liked it.  I wanted to be known for me & I didn't see myself as a nurse.  It was just a job.  Sure,  a job that I did well & could be proud of.  But did it define me?  No,  I think not.  I did so many other things that I wanted to be known for such as world traveler,  missionary, discipler. encourager & friend.
   

  And as I am raising my girls (& one charming prince) I'm thinking that I DON'T want them to be waiting for their Prince Charming to define them. One of my best friends gave me great advice when  she saw my princesses playing house. She told me to not raise them with a Cinderella mentality that they had to wait for their "someday" & sing that song  "someday my prince will come".  No,  I don't want them to define themselves by that (& so glad that they are not, as they are living their lives to the fullest without pining for a boyfriend).  I'm praying that they will define themselves by how God defines them,  valuable & loved,  making their mark on this world to count for eternity.

And so,  maybe this will be how I will define myself,  not as widow or orphan... no not by the circumstances that I'm finding myself in.  Not by all the things that I do (including my new job,  which by the way,  I'm really loving!),  but who I am in this world,  created in God's image for His purpose of loving His people & basking in His love.
  

hee, hee.... I love when the sun comes through the window!!! this is how I'd love to bask in God"s love